Got divorced after twenty years of marraige and to be honest was a difficult marriage in places, he was a controlling possessive and at points violent towards me. Fast forward fifteen years been married to a wonderful guy and couldn't be happier, My family knew how he treated me but one sister goes to see him, and the others keep in touch with him. None of them come to see me and one hasn't even stepped foot in my home I just feel like cutting them out of my life tbh