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Should I text him?

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GreenBottleTops · 22/02/2020 18:10

I think I did something a bit silly last night and now I’m a bit of a dither.

We had a formal dinner for a work event last night, I hate going to those things and always feel a bit out of my depth. My boss was there too, and we ended up chatting for most of the night rather than doing the networking we were supposed to be doing. We shared a taxi home and he invited me in. We ended up sleeping together.

I came out of a very long term relationship last year, and I’ve never had a one night stand, which I assume this is...

I left early this morning whilst he was still asleep and I haven’t heard from him. I don’t really know what my point is, I just am sort of dreading work on Monday and wonder if I should text him.

I feel like I’m probably overthinking the whole thing *smacks forehead

I probably just need to give myself a shake. I’m just really not adept at this sort of thing. 😳

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AnneKipanki · 28/02/2020 21:03

That is lovely that he is going to meet you though.

AnneKipanki · 28/02/2020 21:03

Sounds like a good egg already.

ellendegeneres · 28/02/2020 21:12

I love this! He sounds so lovely

GreenBottleTops · 28/02/2020 21:22

Yea LB is here for the foreseeable future - my older brother has just had a baby, so didn’t really have massive amounts of room for Little Bro, and when we looked into schools and stuff it made sense to move him up to me for secondary school, it’s quite a complicated situation 😬-it’s just a bit of an adjustment for us all, but mostly for him, so trying not to be selfish and suddenly add another dimension to everything.

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Ozziewozzie · 28/02/2020 21:29

You could always ask parents of one of your brothers friends to have him overnight, and that you will return the favour. It will help give your brother a sense of normality and encourage friendships.

incognitomum · 28/02/2020 21:39

Aw how lovely.

It sounds very promising Smile

Bythecooker · 29/02/2020 08:20

You sound lovely and he sounds like a good guy too. How about a friend of yours to be a sitter. Important for little brother to feel important but you do also need a break and as long as it's not every night of the week then no problem, although obviously don't know the full circumstances so you know best. Enjoy the coffee today.

mallachy · 29/02/2020 08:32

Fingers crossed it works out. Sounds good. At some point you need to get a babysitter for LB.

MrsHoolie · 29/02/2020 08:32

This all sounds exciting!

mcmen05 · 29/02/2020 18:31

Dying to hear how coffee date went x

AnneKipanki · 03/03/2020 18:51

How is it going @GreenBottleTops ?

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