I really don't know where to start. I have been in a relationship nearly 30 years met young married 22 years. Have wanted to separate for years in separate rooms nearly 10 years. Husband won't let go happy drifting along. I have started divorce proceedings but he won't acknowledge this and pretends nothing is happening. What do I do leave it all in the hands of my solicitor? It is such a slow process. He really has very little involvement in the home or with the children does when it suits him. I just can't see the way out.