Relatively new DP bought me 2 bunches of flowers for valentines day, (my ex DH never did), I've had a shit year with divorce so it I really appreciated it yet didn't expect anything.
My friend has been messaging me during the day and kept asking what I got from him (which annoyed me), then when I said, she said 'what a creep' for buying 2!.....I felt I had to justify why he bought 2 bunches... why do people have to find the negative in something nice or look for an ulterior motive?