I did some sexting with stranger - guilt

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So my husband has been travelling a lot with work and when he is home he is always tired. We didn’t have sex for three months. He is also not very affectionate guy. I love him. But last week I had some wine after I put kids to bed and stranger messaged me on Facebook (not completely stranger - we are both Admins on the group on Facebook so we conversed before). And we ended up talking about our sexual fantasises. Today I apologised and told him I can’t do this texting anymore and of course I’ll never meet him. Now I feel super guilty. Should I tell my husband what I did?

Nope, but you should talk to him about the state of your marriage.

I wouldnt tell for that but I would make sure to have no contact ever again even if it means not moderating the forum anymore and as above, I would have serious talks about your marriage. I would take this as a huge wake up call

We had a lot of talks over the past few months and he agreed that he needs to work on himself - his communication and affection and attention towards me... he hurt me a lot in the past few months telling me he has no feeling towards me ...then he would cry tell me he is depressed and he wants to fix us... I love him very very much and want to be with him, but the lack of attention now led me to this behaviour

You need to talk to him. If he has no feelings towards you, your marriage is over even if he gets cold feet and wants to try and fix it. It’s done.

Well we broke up once already and he came back crying that he loves me and that he was just depressed saying these things - I don’t know what to think ...