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Fiancé has lost it!!

79 replies

Kel9 · 13/02/2020 11:59

Hi ladies...

Looking to rant really. This all sounds so petty.

My oh and I get married soon and we have a good relationship I mean I feel like we are very compatible and I would say soul mates and he’s a laugh a minute. He’s a big joker I mean he jokes all the time he’s even done this with arguments.. which had fucked me off. He will talk about being annoyed with a straight face about something so I get offended or upset then he’s like I’m joking!!! 😡 I’ve learnt to ignore him but it’s like the boy who cried wolf as I never know when he’s serious.

So last night I was up lots with tooth ache and asked him to turn over in bed as I was sore lying a certain way. ( I’m weird I hate facing people when I sleep) He lost it! He was like for fuck sake blah blah I just thought he was having a sleepy rant..... but no! He took offence to this.

This morning he left for work without saying bye and when I called him over he ignored me? 😳

I text him this morning to say have a good day as I didn’t hear from him like I usually do and he text me back with a really blunt response and no kisses saying he was really pissed off and didn’t want to say goodby to me this morning and that was it.

It’s a load of bollocks it’s not like it’s anything major and how he’s acting now has made me pissed off with him. I’ve just text him to say this is out of the blue (his behaviour) and to have a nice day. He’s not responded and I’m not going to either.

This all sounds like petty nonsense. What the hell is going on?!?

OP posts:
LJenn · 14/02/2020 19:28

This is the problem with sharing your life online. Even if it is to vent. Different opinions, different interpretations.. look, unless we KNOW the OP or her partner personally, we can't really judge the situation & tell her to leave.

Personally (when I read it) I thought he acted like a child and was in need of a good swift kick up the backside, especially when it comes to the "jokes".
NO relationship is perfect. And especially if you're planning a wedding, you FIND a million different stupid reasons to argue with someone because you could be stressed, overwhelmed or tired.

billy1966 · 14/02/2020 19:50

Wishing you well OP.
I hope it works out for you.
If you keep a happy, peaceful home for your child central in your plans, I don't think you can go far wrongFlowers

katy1213 · 14/02/2020 22:09

I couldn't marry anyone who's a laugh a minute but if that doesn't bother you, then I'd suggest separate rooms as toothache aside, you'll be wanting some space when he gets tiresome.

Don't fall off your pedal stool!

HavenDilemma · 14/02/2020 22:32

Yeah personally, I'm 36 so certainly not a 'girl'

Your boyfriend sounds abusive

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