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Is he cheating

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Homelife · 04/02/2020 17:30

I have been with my partner for a long time and we have kids together and about 6 months ago he went on a app and is talking to girls on here he says they see only friends and he works away and it has only been us until about 6 moths ago but when he is at home he does show me that he wants me and he put a lot of time into them when he is working away he talk to them every day I just need some advice

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Homelife · 04/02/2020 18:31

Bump

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notapizzaeater · 04/02/2020 18:34

Why are you with him if he's talking to other girls ?

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Homelife · 04/02/2020 18:36

It’s my first time of posting and finding it hard to explain stuff and there is more going on then just what I have put

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kcw1986 · 04/02/2020 18:37

Id say most definitely

Treacletoots · 04/02/2020 18:38

Sorry, whether he is or he isn't cheating, he is being very disrespectful.

You can do better than this and you deserve to be with someone who treats you with respect, at the very least

mamato3lads · 04/02/2020 18:41

Fairly simple from where I stand.

He is your partner
He works away
When he is away he uses an app to talk to other women ?

Have I got that right ?

Come on!! That's not ok.

What app is it ? What does he talk about? Why does it have to be women? Why doesnt he just talk to you or his friends??

It's more than likely some kind of sex app or something. Find out x

3rdchristmaslucky · 04/02/2020 18:42

What's the app called?
What are the nature of the conversations?
How did you discover the app?

You haven't given us much information to work with here.

Kit19 · 04/02/2020 18:43

It doesn’t look good OP....how did you find out he was doing this?

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Homelife · 04/02/2020 18:43

I am a stay at home mum and he can is telling me there is nothing going on with them they are only friends I have not seen any message to say there is or there isn’t

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Lipz · 04/02/2020 18:44

What app is he on ? Who is he talking to ? What are they talking about ? Why doesn't he talk to you ?

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Homelife · 04/02/2020 18:45

He told me he was making friends on a app

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Homelife · 04/02/2020 18:46

He does talk to me when he is working it’s more that I think he is FaceTime them and probably sending pictures from him to them and from them to him

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SandyY2K · 04/02/2020 18:47

I suppose you making friends with guys on a similar app would be fine with him then?

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Homelife · 04/02/2020 18:47

He said it was just normal day to day chats and I have asked him not to talk to them when we are together and he said ok

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Homelife · 04/02/2020 18:48

I am making friends with men and women and he says he is now friends with some men as well

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Urkiddingright · 04/02/2020 18:49

I once met up with a guy from an OLD site who I obviously thought was single hence being on online dating. We went on a few dates and slept together. One day I received a message from no other than this long term partner who wanted to know whether I was aware he had a girlfriend. I had to screenshot his OLD profile and a few messages so she knew I had no idea. Sleazeball probably met up with a few women behind her back, he also worked away for long stretches...

I’ve told you this because your DP has probably met some of these women as well. I doubt he’s just innocently messaged random women whilst working away with no intention of sleeping with them. Sorry OP but I don’t see how you could trust him again after this.

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Homelife · 04/02/2020 18:49

Yes he would be because he trust me not to do anything

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Homelife · 04/02/2020 18:50

He has told me they live in a different country

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Redhorss · 04/02/2020 18:53

I would not be trusting him...!

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Homelife · 04/02/2020 18:53

I just want him to show me that he still loves me and not putting them before are marriage

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Homelife · 04/02/2020 18:59

The app is called hangouts

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Poppy54 · 04/02/2020 19:01

I'm not being funny here but ..... Is it possible you mean Facebook??

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Homelife · 04/02/2020 19:03

No it’s a app people use in the USA and places like that

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Homelife · 04/02/2020 19:03

You contact people on there using your gmail account

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Homelife · 04/02/2020 19:07

He is saying it’s just day to day chat and there is nothing in it

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