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Is he cheating

56 replies

Homelife · 04/02/2020 17:30

I have been with my partner for a long time and we have kids together and about 6 months ago he went on a app and is talking to girls on here he says they see only friends and he works away and it has only been us until about 6 moths ago but when he is at home he does show me that he wants me and he put a lot of time into them when he is working away he talk to them every day I just need some advice

OP posts:
YasssKween · 04/02/2020 20:22

I just need some advice if he has got board with me how do I get him interested again

Don't you think this is an incredibly unhealthy way of approaching a relationship? Why is it up to you to persuade him to be interested? Is he making you feel wanted, secure, attractive, appreciated etc? If not why are you attempting to do so for him?

Pavlova31 · 04/02/2020 20:32

Yes add him to WhatsApp or whatever so you can see for yourself what he is doing on there.

Pavlova31 · 04/02/2020 20:34

Typo. I meant to write ask him to add you to these groups.

foodiefil · 04/02/2020 20:59

You need to find your own self esteem again and trying to make him "interested again" sounds like your self esteem is very low.

You're better than this. Better than him treating you like this.

CorianderLord · 04/02/2020 22:17

Google Hangout? That's the messaging system we use at work... it's basicallly WhatsApp so he wouldn't have MET them on there he would just be messaging them from it.

Which means he's met them somewhere else, possibly OLD, real life, escort websites, SM.

Grown ups don't just 'make friends' with 25/30 year old strangers on social media. I'm 25 and wouldnt do that it's weird. He's obviously enjoying their attention and wants to sleep with them.

People don't cheat because they're bored they cheat because they're cheaters and don't respect you. There's nothing you can do to 'regain his interest'

Closetbeanmuncher · 04/02/2020 23:56

@CorianderLord is absolutely right.

OP you're being told a pack of lies and instead of being angry and demanding more for yourself you're asking how you can make him interested again???

I also suspect your self esteem is very low as suggested by @foodiefil and my guess is it's him that's responsible for that.

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