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Cut him out of my life?

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Tash171 · 03/02/2020 13:56

A Close Male friend had a off/off girlfriend for many years, we worked together at the time nothing ever happened but we are very good friend have a laugh everyone commented on us many times over.
During one of the breaks we did have sex but it was quite clear things were still not done.
However, they final called it a day around 6 months ago, I always thought if they were over we would give things a go so quite devastated he’s started seeing a total WAG fake tits, arse from turkey ect, quite clear she sees the money aspects of his life as we work in quite a lucrative sector. But he's given her everything I ever wanted :(
Do I cut him out of my life? No one gets me like he does, he called me last week for 5-6 hours that just how well we get on, he’s recently got a new car and I have purchased a new house he’s dying to see.. but I don’t think I can see him without knowing he’s chosen someone else

OP posts:
Dozer · 03/02/2020 17:05

You were never “just friends”: it wasn’t an appropriate “friendship”, you wanted a relationship and this wasn’t and still isn’t on offer, so no contact would be best.

Being nasty about his girlfriend isn’t on. You feel this way because of his / your decisions and actions.

Tash171 · 03/02/2020 17:09

I'm so done with him knocking my confidence to lower than rock bottom :(
Agree it's not her fault just even looking at her hurts.

OP posts:
Dozer · 03/02/2020 17:12

You could’ve avoided that in the past and can avoid further hurt now. Just stay clear of him.

billy1966 · 03/02/2020 17:14

Good plan OP👍

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