I’ve been in a relationship with a great bloke for ten months. He says he loves me and I believe him. My issue is that he is a workaholic due to getting straight financially after a divorce and has little free time. He has a group of male friends he sees regularly and he seems to make plans with them in advance for nights out (spending a fair amount of money) but i find it difficult getting him to arrange proper nights out with me. It seems to be spending time at his or mine and pinning him down to a proper date involves me asking several times. I don’t think he’s even aware of this but I’m getting increasingly annoyed which concerns me as other than this issue, he means the world to me.