Would you be hurt/upset if your bloke did this?

[snoozebird]

He didn't come to bed last night. When I woke up at 8am, he was dicking around with settings on his computer, really narky and drunk. He stayed up until 11am, despite me telling him to go to bed.

It's now nearly 9pm and he's still in bed. I'd asked if he was going to be up in time for dinner and he said yes, but obviously can't be arsed to get up.

I know it's not normal behaviour, but am I just being petty about being pissed off with him? We don't have kids and we didn't have plans to do anything in particular today, so there's not much of a reason for him to get up.

Would you have woken him up? Or just let him get on with it?

@Whynosnowyet I wouldn't be in that relationship either- doesn't sound like he was suffering depression considering his social life, sounds more like an alcohol problem, self medicating with prescriptives-
OP's OH sounds like he may also be self medicating but with alcohol, considering the fact that he stayed up alone until 11am he does sound like he might be suffering depressive episodes (this has happened on more than one occasion OP?).
No one should have their own MH compromised by another- if that is the case then of course parting ways is the only option-