Is it acceptable to set up dates with more than one man?

[pilks]

I'm doing the OLD and having done some filtering I've been asked out by 3 men, should I accept them all and see which seems the best or is that just greedy ?

Accept all of them! I was really into one guy once and had a couple of dates, I carried on messaging another as I didn’t want to put all my eggs in the one basket but really was more into the first one. Long story short, the first one turned out to be a disappointment and I’m now married to the second one :-)

Play the field!

If a man wants exclusivity he can put a ring on it as far as I'm concerned

Grim.

Put a ring on it.

Feel free to describe a woman as an it.

Completely ok.

It means the finger the ring goes on to me, not the woman the finger is attached to. [shrugs]

Of course, as long as you accept it works both ways.

Your date that you found lovely may well be sleeping with 4 other people this week.

But until you're 'exclusive' (and faithful to each other once you are), then it's none of your business what the other is getting up to.