Not going into details because I gave away too much in the last thread and got it deleted.
Anyway, for those who remember, my dad let DD down a few weeks back. Saw him for the first time since then, and he was really really good with her - it can be a bit hit and miss how much they actually do together and how much is just playing at his house, but he actually went out of his way to play with her alone etc
He phoned and apologised after the whole thing happened, I think he realised how much he had let her down