Would you think he’s not interested if he did this?

[KatieKiteFight]

Met online, had 5 dates, not slept together but done plenty else. He’s said a lot of nice things, hasn’t been overbearing but has suggested follow on dates and things for us to do.

We had a loose plan to meet this weekend. We spoke last night and it was nice, I said I couldn’t commit to Friday night because of work (won’t say what as it’s outing).

I realised this morning I could feasibly see him tonight on my way home as a home visit has been cancelled. Text him to suggest it, he’s been online but not replied.

I don’t want to waste my time and as I really like him I don’t want to make a mistake and carry on if this is a clear sign he’s not actually that arsed.

What do you think?

Distraction also helps. If I am feeling anxious about something I know I have to try to find something else to take up the mind space. So I will read or watch something or go for a walk or call a friend

I like this thread.

@menora your advice is absolutely excellent, I am going to read this, I completely agree with everything you say when it's all written down.