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His sperm burns me

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GreyAndCopper · 20/01/2020 16:38

Desperately need some advice because I don't know what's going on. I'm 27 weeks pregnant and for the last few weeks sex has been quite painful, it's sore upon entering, even when using fingers. I've stopped being able to orgasm at all, and could only do so before by clitoral stimulation. But even after 40 minutes of trying I just can't get off anymore, it's like I've lost all desire for an orgasm - but my vagina bloody hurts.

After we have sex, he will finish and my vagina will burn. He will then attempt to get me off using his fingers, with the cum keeping it wet because I literally cannot self-lubricate being pregnant, but after about ten minutes I have to ask him to stop because the whole outer area burns like crazy and doesn't stop until I've wiped the cum off with a baby wipe. Sorry, I know this is TMI.

Anyone know why this is happening? We have a really active sex life, at least once a day, and I get turned on and do want sex, but when it actually does happen it's so painful.

We've both been tested and haven't slept with anyone else since. Any ideas?

OP posts:
Ferretyone · 20/01/2020 17:11

@GreyAndCopper

It is known - you can google it although you may get some unpleasant sites. The solution is simple I'm afraid - condoms and lube

otterhound · 20/01/2020 17:13

Feck knows probably an allergic reaction so use condoms and buy lube.

supadupapupascupa · 20/01/2020 17:18

Have you checked for thrush? I suffered terribly during pregnancy. It cN make you very sore

chlo04 · 20/01/2020 17:20

You need to be checked for BV! I had this for AGES. Hated it, was sooo horrible and I had no symptoms other than basically what your describing .. I kept being told I had UTI..

Eventually they checked me out because it got so bad and it got treated and now I'm fine

restingbitchface30 · 20/01/2020 17:31

I would say bv, I’ve had it, it sounds similar and it’s horrid. Or maybe thrush. Although you would get itching too with both

Bigpooh13 · 20/01/2020 19:11

What's bv

Nifflernancy · 20/01/2020 19:14

Get checked out and yes use lube

ChipsyChopsy · 20/01/2020 19:22

Another vote for thrush. Can be low lying and painful during pregnancy.

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