Boyfriend called me..

[NewMe2020]

..a prick when I asked him not to use a certain product on my oven. He lives a t mine but is just so distant from me. No affection, no hugs. Im looking after him but I dont get anything back

Looking after him?

Are you his carer?

He is ill

Sorry can you give a bit more detail.

Right. Well name calling isn't ok. Is this a regular thing?

What do you want from us here?

Seems like his family can now take over...
Get rid op.

In many years of marriage during which we have had a fair few arguments, my husband has never once called me a derogatory name.
I suggest you have a long serious think/ talk about where your relationship is heading.

I don't care how ill he is, being ill is no excuse for being obnoxious. You need to kick the ungrateful pig out.

Is he working. If he is too ill to work how is he paying towards your rent and bills. How long have you been together. Can he go back to his place.

Get rid. My ex called me an anal psycho during a disagreement when we were going out 5 minutes. Also told me he didn't do long term relationships....

This is very possibly a big red flag in light of your other comments