Emotions

[elklouise]

Help! After so many years being alone and having self-doubt finally met someone and though had only known each other a few weeks the time spent together was amazing. A few weeks ago that person moved away and i have found myself emotional, whenever i think about them i have a lump in my throat or in tears and i have never felt this way before.

Is it common to have feelings and be so emotional about someone who you've not known for very long?
Sorry if irrelevant for here, just needed to voice somewhere especially for any advice. Thank you

Are you still together?

You had a good time being close to someone. You enjoyed it and now they’ve moved away. Of course you are upset. That’s normal.

But take confidence that he had a good time too and you can either build on a long range relationship or at least know you are desirable & lovely, and your life is looking up.

No we aren't together
I don't think i expected to become so attached especially when i knew he was moving.

After all this time of being single, stuff tends to get stuck in our bodies... Especially the emotional body.
Because you've had your candle lighted again, this stuff now became freed, and I advise to visit and honour these emotions as proof that you still have what it takes to be loved and to love another.
This person was a match to light up your loving life again.
I've recently encountered a similar thing.
If any emotions surface for whatever reason.. Don't try finding it.. Just sit with them and understand and honour them.
It will help you in the long run.

Much love, Lily-Surya.