I'm am 30 yrs old and I have been dating my gf for 5 yrs. She is 39 yrs old and has a 17 yr old child.
Over past 6 months the name relationship has turned very one sided. I feel she doesn't care or feels the same way any more.
Last weekend she sent very abusive and rude texts to me wanting to end relationship. She made me feel like I ruined her life and wasted her time. Every time she faces adversity in life she has always resorted to blaming me for it. She works part time and if she gets less hours, I would be to blame. I have helped her financially over past few years, I have always been faithful.
While she was abusing me last weekend and insulting my background/religion, I never got upset, I felt severe guilt like I have done something wrong? In the end she calmed down, when I said I'll move in with her (blackmail I know). We haven't talked since weekend and I just don't know what to do.....