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Bf went to a girls house he dated b4 me at midnight to return her things?

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Spinning88 · 14/01/2020 12:44

So I found a uber receipt on my bf email account going to a girls that he dated for a bit before me. I asked him about it as I was absolute mortified. He said that he went to her house to return her belongings and just close the door for good, As he wanted to be with me.
The event of that eve:
He was out drinking with his friends afterwork and didnt get home till 11.30pm. He said he had planned to meet her earlier but got carried away with the drinks. She apparently was waiting for him in her car outside his house and then got fed up and drove home. When he got in he messaged me asking how my eve was but then took an uber to her house. I've asked him many time if he had slept with her etc and he said he didnt. When he got to hers, they got in her car, he made her drive towards his house as he didnt want to pay for another uber. They spoke, as he hadn't seen her for a while as she had been travelling. He returned her belongings to close the door on her etc and said he didnt want to see her no more. He said she started crying in the car and remembered him feeling really bad for her. He then got out her car and walked home. I just dont get why he had to see her that late at night, but he said he was planning to see her earlier but got late cos of the drinks and that he just wanted to get it all out the way.
I want to believe him but I still have doubts... what do you guys think?

OP posts:
Cheeseandwin5 · 15/01/2020 16:29

OP, you are not going to get a balanced reply on MN, they will have found him guilty as so as you mentioned he was male, so please don't use the comments to prejudice you.
The fact is he trusts you completely with his personal communications. He allows you to view unhindered and you have used it to snoop on him. Everything you have said about him screams that he is telling the truth. It may not seem rational but he was drunk and ending a relationship sometimes this can cause ppl to act irrationally.

CuriousaboutSamphire · 15/01/2020 16:45

Oh! The ex or the bf??

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