fed up

[loobylu2]

Hubby been telling lies constantly about money. We have chatted about it several times, so he knows how I feel. I can see right through his lies saying he has paid things when he has not. This week he told me that he transfered money into my account and when I looked online I could see he clearly did not (same bank). Then he gave me some crap story about mistake their end. I am just so fed up with this, he does not respect me enough to tell me the truth. I am going to sound sad now but I do love him and we do have children, just wish he would grow up and take responsibility for his actions. These endless lies getting me down and just as you think its sorted it happens again.

why is he lying? To spare your feelings or is he spending the money on himself?

I do not know the reason to why he lies all the time. In this case I think he had over spent and did not have to money to transfer but lied about transferring the money.

This is not the half of it though. A few months ago he lied about money being paid into his account (tax credit money). He never told me he was receiving it and it he was spending it. When I questioned him about it he said that he had not received any money and that the account had been closed (when it was not, was still up and running. In the end he was found out but I don't think he realises how much this hurts...I can't bear anyone of this dishonesty.

Sorry to start telling my probs on hear as a newbie but have to say something as just feeling lost at the mo

I always wonder why they bother to lie when it is blatently obvious that you will find out
Feel free to unload that is what we are here for.

but he always found out that what gets me angry. everything else is fine but this is one major problem we have as its driving me away from him