Snapchat friends?

[BagpussDearBagpuss]

Hi

I’m hoping to get some information here regarding Snapchat. I don’t have Snapchat and have no idea how it works but my partner of 12 years has had it for a while now.

This morning I found out that he had been seeing/ viewing/receiving (or whatever the correct term is) videos of some random woman who posts videos of herself in the shower and stripping etc.

I asked how this came about and he said that he just randomly added some people and that she just happened to be one of those people. He said that he deleted her after a few days.

I got quite upset at the fact that he’d been viewing these videos but he says that he’s done nothing wrong and can’t understand why it’s upset me.

At this moment I have said that I need to think about where our relationship goes from here. I am having a very stressful time regarding my DD and I really don’t know if I’ve overreacted but the thought of him perving over some random woman has totally turned my stomach.

I'd end itm I'm old enough and ugly enough now that I dont tolerate anything that makes me feel bad or gives me that horrible cold sick feeling in the put of my stomach.

Life is too short.

I would try and see how many followers she has. If it’s 1,000s she unlikely has any contact with your husband and it’s similar to viewing online porn. Which maybe isn’t great but is very common

Thank you for your replies.