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Finding ex on tinder

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TheTickingTime · 10/01/2020 21:00

Yeah, so I joined tinder, after my good friend, who has been on tinder on and off for a while, found my ex on tinder. Told me and I joined, just to have a look myself. I am that sad. He was very manipulative, angel in the streets, devil in the home, although he never hesitated showing me abuse in public. But what surprised me, as I was swiping left, when he did pop up, it really hit me. All the picks use to have me in them, and one of his pics I took of him. So, I was relieved when I broke it off and since then my life has improved and I have a smile on my face, and spring in my step, and I can actually say I am really happy. Everyone moves on, and he is entitled to that too, it's just a bummer

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TeddyBeans · 10/01/2020 21:02

Sounds like you dodged a bullet, lovely. Don't look back! Your life is going in a better direction now ❤️

TheTickingTime · 10/01/2020 21:14

It's so weird that six months or so ago I thought my world had fallen apart, and I knew he was never going to be single long. There has always been an overlap and somhow he is able to find a new relationship really quickly. How do they do they do that? There were three months between me and his ex.

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TeddyBeans · 10/01/2020 22:32

It's been 4.5 months since my ex left and I thought exactly that for maybe a month... Then realised DS and I were so much better off on our own!

The ones that can manipulate how people see them are the ones that jump from relationship to relationship I find. It's definitely not because they're more attractive, more likely that they can find someone else to easily manipulate

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