Where do I stand?

[BrideOfDracula]

Such a simple question!

If you had been seeing someone 2-3 times a week for a couple.of months, when do you think it would be reasonable to have the where is this going/where do I stand/what do you want/this is where I am at conversation?

Already know it's exclusive and neither of us has dated anyone else for a few years.

I only thought you had those chats if these were stagnant. It sounds fine at the moment. But yous you coud say where do you see yourself next year type things to get a bearing.

I'm just not very good at reading aitaitions/people. If something isn't made explicit or obvious to me, I devote an awful lot of time to trying to make sense of it.

I know where he sees himself next year and it didn't really give me any answers as to how he feels about me or where he sees this going.