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I got my mum arrested

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Justyouraveragehuman · 02/01/2020 23:03

Hey guys, I posted on here over Christmas about my mums abusiveness and tonight I have had her arrested and I just can’t sleep I feel terrible. She is an alcoholic and has been for years!

She has spat it my face, attacked me and another family member tonight.

This has all been going on for years and tonight it has just become too much. Please someone reassure me, I am losing my mind here and I am scared of how much more angry this is going to make her.

OP posts:
ptumbi · 03/01/2020 11:32

breaks my heart to see the relationship some people have with their mums - there are more us than you'd think, who are NC with parents.

I am NC with my father (30+years) and my toxic sister (10+ years) and I only tolerate my mother because she is the least-worst IYSWIM. I will never have a loving relationship with her, she doesn't know how to. I do have that with my own kids due to my own efforts with them, and I am proud of that.

Don't chase that particular genie, OP. Some people are just not worthy of you, mother, father, related or not.

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