Dh and I have just had a huge argument. He had lots of hobbies which normally I don't mind but. I'm about 9 weeks pregnant and I found out a couple of days ago that there was no heartbeat. Dh was disbelieving of this and we then went for a further scan with him present and they told us the same. Baby stopped growing only a couple of days before. He made all the right noises of upset at the scan but later when home was pretty cold. He says it's because I've shut him out. I feel like he's not really upset about it because he already has 4 children from previous relationships. I have one. I'd also seen that within a couple of hours of the scan he arranged to go for a drink New Year's Eve with his friend. I didn't say anything about this straight away as I was too grief stricken to be bothered. Then this morning I lost what I think was my mucus plug. Now I know it's not the same but it scared me because after I lost this with my daughter I had a very rapid labour. I'm booked in for a procedure on Friday but I'm worried I won't make it that far and will lose it at home which I'm very scared about. I've told him this and gain he made some mildly sympathetic noises but then went on to say is it ok for me to play rugby this afternoon. I know that this will involve at least 7 hours out of the house and drinking with his friends afterwards. I don't want to be alone in the house with 3 children, one under 6 if I'm going to end up bleeding and god knows what so I just said I'd rather be stayed in incase something happened. He then went off on one saying how he's put a stone on and he can't stay in the house all day etc called me dramatic, said his mother had lost a child of 4 and never caused this much fuss. I then shouted at him and told him that he was a selfish ... that he expects me to be nice quiet good little wife and not bother him with little things like a miscarriage because it might get in the way of his socialising. Wtf do I do now?