Would you ask him who he was with last night?

[xmasevebirthdaygirl]

Guy who I'm "seeing" isn't committed to me and is seeing lots of other women.
When I say seeing,it's pretty much just sleeping with them.
He texts so many women.
I've thought about starting the new year a fresh slate and just saying leave me alone.
Last night he didn't speak to me (the night before constant texts ) so he was with someone.
So do I ask him who he was with?
Or play it cool and pretend I don't care?
I hate knowing but I hate not knowing too.

A problem with relationships like this is the potential to mess with your head. You’re suddenly a person who you don’t recognise - jealous, weak and obsessive.

It doesn’t matter who these other women are. They don’t have anything you don’t have. He isn’t committing to any of them either. He’s like a lad in a sweet shop where all the sweets have different but nice in their own way. It’s fine to be one of these sweets but if it’s affecting your mental health, then I’d kick this one sided relationship into touch.