We're separating but stuck in the same house. I'm taking the kids to a family members house for Christmas lunch after we 'do' Santa presents etc in the morning. As I knew would happen, he's ramping up his arsehole-ness as some sort of punishment for daring not to do what he wants. He knows this time I'm not going to back down, where as in previous years the thought of having to deal with the fallout meant I just complied with what he wanted.
I don't know why its getting to me so much today, or what I'm hoping for by posting, but here we are.