I'm looking for some advice, maybe from someone who's been through something similar, try not to be too harsh, I'm aware of the not so clever choices I've made. I've been seeing this man for a few months now and have been official for just under two. Things were going well, we were taking things slow and just getting to know eachother untill I missed my period, I waited a while before finally taking a test a few weeks ago which was positive. I've let it sink in but I'm still not exactly sure what I want to do yet, I told him the same week I found out, he's told me he'll support me whatever I decide I want to do. We both have children, my daughter is 15 and he has two children, 8 and 5. My daughter knows I'm in a relationship but she hasn't met him, I am worried about how this will affect her, it will deffiently be a shock. I could see this working and the idea of having another child does sound nice but it's not an ideal situation and I'm not sure how we'll make it work.