Will try and keep this as short as possible but also get all the info in, I just need some advice.
I've posted before about my "dad" Him and my mum split up when I was very young, he's never really been there for me. I went into care when I was 10, my dad lives about 3 hours away and has a new family. He didn't do anything when I went into care. Sometimes I get Christmas/birthday cards, sometimes I don't. I used to try keep in touch and always send cards, found out this year his gf is expecting another child which really effected me, brought up feelings from my childhood as I feel the new baby will be another reason for him not to bother. since then I've gone LC, but saw each other at my grans funeral 2 months ago (left on ok terms) I have twin daughters who will be 2 soon. He's met them twice. On Saturday night I got a message from him that said the following "coming up to see my dad on the 28th, will leave the girls presents there, bless them, they might get them in Christmas 2025 don't bother with us no more" his dad, my grandad lives 5 minutes away from us. I am absolutely furious and still am. I tried ringing but got no reply and there's been NC since.
Thanks for reading if you got this far, any advice will help as I feel my heads all over.