I know it's just that I haven't met the right person yet, but the last 2 dates I have had just felt like interviews and small talk.
I met a guy on Tinder, he was very keen over message, writing me essays, replying immediately to everything etc. Then we met and I guess I didn't feel attracted to him at all or even have much of a laugh.
Stayed 1h30 to be polite but it was really just small talk. Anyway went home and i've not heard a word from him since despite all that eager texting before.
I do find it hard but it's probably just been the wrong people. I'm currently messaging someone I briefly met at a wedding and finding it hard to create a connection or flirt.
Any advice on how you can do this with men by message or IRL ? Thanks