Split from partner

[JoJoey45]

I thought maybe this time I had found my Happy Ending.... I was wrong long story cut short met a guy all going great he had two kids I fell pregnant my first all was great apart from his mood swings my beautiful baby came early and my relationship started slowly going down hill 7 months hoping it would go back to normal we are over just wondered if anyone else has experienced this??? To top it off I really would like another baby but age is against me 😕

Oh I was there, many moons ago, sumilar story too. I knew leaving my ex was the right thing, how about you? Are you doubting yourself and then why?

It's so strange I'm not sure I have felt numb towards him since having my baby he said some nasty things to me like I was only with him for a baby which wasn't true I just feel I would like to know a reason why I feel this way he didn't treat me too badly but we went through a lot in the short time we were together

You feel this way because you do not love him, and he is wrong for you. Make peace with it, enjoy the baby and more importantly, enjoy early motherhood. Guilt is useless, and often acceptance is a sophisticated move!😬

I think you might be right I guess I wanted it to work so much that I put up with alot my health visitor said she thought I needed counselling because of a trauma in my life when I was young and that it sounded like I pick/ attract men who like to have coercive control