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What Should I do ?

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qascopak1 · 08/12/2019 17:13

I recently started dating a girl I have knew for 10 years and worked together at my last job (she was married at the time (16 years with a child )

so we recently started speaking on fb to find out her man had been cheating on her, so i was giving her comforting messages ect then we ended up sleeping together on the first night and have been seeing eachother ever since, but she has recently backed off and said she doesnt know how she feels and our whole seeing eachother has been just us whos knows due to her being a private person, she is still married and her man is still seeing this other girl, I as the typical man have been asking whats up ? whats changed ? after 8 months seeing eachother, the conversations getting less and less she then hit me with the friendzone but came to my house and slept with me and seen her 3 nights in a row after that. we have been talking on instagram mostly me talking first about wanting to meet up with her. for her to ignore it saying she needs space and without sounding sad

I continue to speak to her, But today i sent a message saying i dont think i can be friends with her but want to meet up in a few weeks and see what happens

she read it and ignored me, what chance do you think i have of getting her back if i do a no contact thing ?

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IdiotInDisguise · 08/12/2019 17:16

More than if you insist. Having said that, I wouldn’t go there until she decides whether she wants to leave her marriage or continue to turn a blind eye on her husband’s affair.

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