My husband has become very close to a woman at work and very distant from me as a result. i have tried to confront him and he just says I am the jealous type.
I managed to get hold of his normally very guarded phone and read the message on WhatsApp between the 2 of them. I know they have been messaging a lot for months but he only had messages from the last 3 weeks. All others were deleted. Some of the chat had deleted bits. Every message ends with a cheeky emoji mainly the blowy kiss and the love heart eyes . He is constantly asking if she is ok. Or things like why were you quiet yesterday. She sent a pic of herself and he responded with gorgeous and a 2 love heart eyes emoji. There are bits where he mentions me and she does the lol emoji (laughing with tears). I can’t see what’s funny. e.g. he says il have to ask the mrs if we have plans. to which she replied with 5 of the laughing emojis. Am I missing something or is there a private joke. I know her marriage is failing from comments my hubby made in the past. But is it ok for her to turn to someone else’s man for comfort. I get no care or affection from him.
I confronted him once again and he called me a pathetic paranoid fool with no concrete evidence. He said everything on there is banter
I have a pounding headache and can’t think.
Please can I have your views Is it ok for them to be so close.
Thanks in advance