I am wondering if I should leave my DH but I am 100% sure he will make life unbearable if I leave him. Like he will purposely make it difficult with the DC, sharing custody and after school childcare etc, Has anyone else had this? Is it worth staying until the DC are in secondary? I really cannot afford to pay my own rent and to pay for childcare too so at the moment I would be reliant on him for before and after school help.