Right here goes!!! I was messaging someone else, (nothing really just gossiping etc) I went out one night and he was out and I was very drunk. Basically had a kiss and a fumble.(yes I know it was wrong. Things have been shit. Shouldn't of happened, I know, please I don't want agro, just advice!!!) A friend came over the next day and we spoke about it. Unknown to me my partner had recorded the whole conversation. Yep heard everything!! So I was honest told the truth. Since then he has been up and down wanting re-assursance, as I've made him feel completely inicure about us. we do love eachother. We've been together 17yrs! Anyway 1. I'm concerned as he did this years ago record me whilst talking to a family member. 2. He's followed this guy to his home address after seeing out in the shop. This guy had children in the car!! Wtf do I do is this normal??? Has he recorded me more than I know!! Is this legal!! I'm on pins- yes I know I've caused it but I've been completely honest. I need advice!!!