So my ex husband would like to try again. However this means that I must never ever mention any of his infidelity or lies again. It appears I used to talk about it too much and he didn't like that. That's why he did it again. Because I expected it to happen so it did. I mean it's only been a few months since the last one he slept with and a few weeks since the one he was out drinking with 'as friends'. I'll forget the 5 months on a swinging site. How can I resist? Add in another 2K loan last month on top of the other 5k he has borrowed which had 'no impact' on our marriage or finances. Seriously though how can he even think this would be acceptable? He must be delusional!!!