Husband is a nasty ####

[notanothershitday]

I've been around for a while but couldn't sign in!!
Had to sign up again,
Don't know where to turn me and hubby argue and fight all the time, he won't except any of my family or grown up children from my previous relationship will sulk and not talk to me if he hears me talking on the phone to them, this goes on for days, one of my family popped in on Monday so I haven't been spoken to until today, his called me every name under the son with the usual fat c@@t frigid, waste of space pushed past me and raised his fist in my face, I'm getting over a cancer diagnosis and have had to do it without any support from him, finished chemotherapy in July and often get told he hopes I die,
I just don't feel like I can carry on, if I refuse sex I'm punished for it, I've asked him to leave and he's refusing to go and getting more and more angry with me so I'm upstairs out of the way,
Sorry for ranting just don't know we're to turn

it's like he knows I'm waiting for him to leave,

I've always said that abusers have some sort of 'sixth sense' when their victim starts to awaken and begins to 'pull away'. I don't know if it's actually sixth sense or if somehow we give off a different 'vibe' or what.

But that's why it's very important to be as stealthy as possible and to be 'mindful' of not changing our outward behaviour or responses. If you do that, he'll start to 'relax' his paranoia.

Hi OP, just checking in to see how everything is going. Are you okay?

I hope you are ok and that you have managed to start a plan of action. Remember that you deserve good things.