I just don’t get it

[Busybusybee2000]

Boyfriend of 3 years has no respect for my neighbours. We don’t live together and to be honest I can’t stand my neighbours either but we’re civil. We say hi and bye. We don’t really get on because of parking but we’re civil. My boyfriend comes Round and has no consideration for my neighbours. He parks ridiculous at times not sure wether it’s to piss them off but his behaviour ends up pissing me off. Eg he knows parking is limited but will take up two spaces. When I go to his house in respectful where I park. He just doesn’t listen to me. Not sure how I further tackle this.

You should take it as a red flag. I have an ex who did this. Like you, I am not fond of my neighbours, but respectful. Ex caused parking drama and full scale threats of fights on my doorstep with three sets of neighbours. It was this, along with a series of other no-no behaviours, that made me determined to dump him. He doesn't listen to you...or respect your boundaries, or care that you have to get along with your neighbours for your comfort. It is a slippery slope from there unfortunately.