I found out of Thursday that we're in a lot of credit card debt. This has been building over two years and I have a separate thread to try and sort of finances.
My knee jerk reaction was to ask husband to leave while I figure out if I can trust him/do we actually have a future. We have three children. Two primary aged and one seven months.
What is fair for him to see them? I kicked him out on Thursday and have facilitated phone calls Thursday/Friday. Today he is taking the older two for five hours and then having an hour in the house with the baby. I don't know what to offer.
It might all be temporary and he is pushing for us to work through it all. I've not had the sleep to deal with this.