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If I tell GP I was raped will they report to social services?

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Paulettepink · 15/11/2019 13:13

Sorry to post again but feeling really lost. I think I should take the morning after pill to be on the safe side but terrified of social services being told what happened.

I just called my local SARC and made an appointment but cancelled when I was told they would inform social services if I came in for the appointment. I was going to try and get an emergency gp appointment this afternoon but now worried that the same thing will happen if I go there?

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Theredjellybean · 17/11/2019 20:53

I am really sorry that happened.
I just say to my patients " please don't worry, its nit my job to judge and anyway the fact you came to get it shows your pretty sensible and responsible"

There are map that can be taken up to five days post SI.. Is that still too late?

slipperywhensparticus · 17/11/2019 20:58

Copper coil? And block the guy HE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND

Paulettepink · 17/11/2019 21:04

Theredjellybean why can't all GP's be like you.
I'm breastfeeding so as I understand it I needed the one that you have to take within 3 days and it happened Tuesday night.

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Paulettepink · 17/11/2019 21:07

slipperywhensparticus I'm terrified by that idea unfortunately. I'm not talking to him anymore. I told him I needed space and he has left me alone

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slipperywhensparticus · 18/11/2019 09:38

You need space? He needs a 6x4 jail cell

Paulettepink · 18/11/2019 10:20

slipperywhensparticus that made me laugh. I think the bit that concerns me the most is that he doesn't understand what he has done wrong. And no matter how many times I were to explain it, I don't think that would change. 'We didn't have sex. Just penetration' apparently that is ok

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category12 · 18/11/2019 10:42

He does understand what he did wrong, but he'll never admit it to anyone or himself. He's just trying to rules-lawyer his way out of it with self-serving bullshit.

category12 · 18/11/2019 10:45

And the legal definition of rape in the UK is penetration with a penis without consent, so it really doesn't matter whether he thinks it doesn't count or not.

Paulettepink · 18/11/2019 13:17

category12 that is true and it's hard to believe that he doesn't actually know that so have to assume that he is trying to talk his way out of it like you say

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