BF new girlfriend pregnant

[Mumof2and3angles]

I need someone to tell me I’m not being a normal mess, I’m 8weeks pregnant and my BF (male) has just told me his new girlfriend I mean they have only been together 2.5 weeks has told him he is going to be a daddy.
From day 1 I’ve had her pegged as an attention seeker and if there is no drama she isn’t happy kinda person. It’s complicated to say the least and it’s only been 2 weeks. I just have a strong gut instinct she is lying but somehow manipulating him to lie too maby. So the first time they had sex was 2 weeks ago. 3 days ago he told her I was pregnant as I’m suffering with hypermese and she has got 2 kids thought she might have some advice, then the next day he started getting all broody which she pick up on and asked him and he said one day he would love to have a baby of his own. Well the next morning she turns up at his house claiming she suddenly has morning sickness and craving milkshakes and tells him she is pregnant and he is goi to be a dad.
Now is it just me or dose it all seem like Bullshit ? I would love him to find the one settle and have a family but I really don’t think she is it.

It’s official he is deluded he told me last night the first time they had sex was on the 5th of November and she announced she is pressman the on the 11th. I’ve tried to talk to him he is now Liturally trying to make up bollox to make it seem more likely saying they actually had sex 2 weeks before that so a week before they got together and her euros has suddenly turned to implantation bleeding and she is suddenly really stressed she is going to misscarry. Anyone else smell that. He ovbiously ran to her and told her everything I have said and she is now sending me messages saying I’m throwing my toys out the pram because he can see through my bullshit and I’m lying about her faking the pregnancy. Washing hands with them both told him I’ll always be there but I won’t put up with this state he has got himself into

It all sounds like a Jeremy Kyle segment.

And this man is 36?

Blimey.

😳😳 I can smell it from here.

Walk away op, be there when he needs you, which he inevitably will, but for now, stand back and let it happen. He's an adult, he can deal with it.

It's frightening that someone might think that he is suitable father material!

Has he always been like this, Op?

I couldn't be doing with it.

And if he comes back crying I'd be hard pushed not to tell him to fuck off for essentially calling me a liar!

Hopefully he'll see her true colours in the end.

So the plot twisted last night as exspected she messaged me last night telling me he needed me as she had just found out the baby isn’t his !!!! Who didn’t see that coming
She said she had done one of the test with weeks indicators and it shows she is 8 weeks pregnant. Again I called her bullshit on this because I know that they only go up to 3+ so questioned it and she got very defensive and said she knows how they work yes it went to 3+ so it can’t be his after having told me she fell pregnant to him on the 23rd of October which by my calculation would make her 3+ anyway but she is now adamant it means it’s not his and has dumped him saying it’s his fault because he has acted like a child. He is in pieces blaming himself for destroying there happiness
Now claims it’s her x’s baby who she has told me had the snip but apparently it’s somehow failed.
This woman is a master manipulator and pure evil clearly but how do I know make him realise this isn’t his fault she has really got deep into his head

He's devastated because a person he was seeing for a few weeks broke up with him? Your friend needs psychological help!

Well yes I agree with this he is very very delicate and has bad mental health at the best of times

Could be that he has low self esteem too.” She was the only woman I had a shot with and now I’ll be lonely for ever “ kind of drama queen thinking.

Just be supportive and keep saying that she lied to him and she’ll probably go back to her ex as he’s the dad and that’s why she dumped him. It’s not his fault kind of thing.

You’ll need the patience of a saint though to not slap the stupid guy for being so gullible.

So encourage him to get help rather than investing time in this drama.