BF new girlfriend pregnant

[Mumof2and3angles]

I need someone to tell me I’m not being a normal mess, I’m 8weeks pregnant and my BF (male) has just told me his new girlfriend I mean they have only been together 2.5 weeks has told him he is going to be a daddy.
From day 1 I’ve had her pegged as an attention seeker and if there is no drama she isn’t happy kinda person. It’s complicated to say the least and it’s only been 2 weeks. I just have a strong gut instinct she is lying but somehow manipulating him to lie too maby. So the first time they had sex was 2 weeks ago. 3 days ago he told her I was pregnant as I’m suffering with hypermese and she has got 2 kids thought she might have some advice, then the next day he started getting all broody which she pick up on and asked him and he said one day he would love to have a baby of his own. Well the next morning she turns up at his house claiming she suddenly has morning sickness and craving milkshakes and tells him she is pregnant and he is goi to be a dad.
Now is it just me or dose it all seem like Bullshit ? I would love him to find the one settle and have a family but I really don’t think she is it.

She probably is pregnant but your friend is not the daddy.I would be keeping my eye out for any "premature" 8lb ers

If she had her period two weeks ago there is no way she knows she pregnant. That or she’s further along and is lying about who the father is.

he is 36 but dose not have luck with woman at all
Well that's hardly surprising considering it's been 2 weeks and he's all excited about being a dad to a baby that doesn't even exist.
Tell him to get her a test and tell her that he wants to do it together.
Bet she doesn't take him up on that offer.
He needs to back right off.
She split with her Ex only 4 weeks ago.
She is NOT ready for another relationship.
He needs to do some work on himself and the understanding of the female anatomy!
And he needs to use condoms.
2 weeks and he's not using protection.
He also needs to read up on STD's and STI's!

That was my other thought why would you rush to your ex to tell him your pregnant

I just wish he would open his eyes to all the bullshit but he is too trusting and is “so in love with her” I think he is too scared to face reality that’s awful to say but some of it is just so over the top of it’s true she is the most unlucky woman on earth

well her first scan will be interesting OP....

I agree with all of that and didn’t actually think about the test together idea I might suggest it
He knows he needs to work on himself that’s what he was suppose to be doing but apparently you can’t help falling in love

Yeh I thought about the scan she has said she can’t book in with midwife yet as she is only 2.5 weeks hmmm we all know the first 2 weeks don’t really exsist as your not technically pregnant so she must mean 4.5 and surely with a collapsed lung and broken ribs she can get a priority visit right 🤣

You're friend is an adult, let him work things out for himself. Focus on your own life, it's not really any of your business.

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"You can't help falling in love"

Well tbh I think that you can to a point.

But that said, falling in love doesn't mean that you lose all sense of what is reasonable/possible does it?

He's not trusting he's a gullible idiot.

It's her best friend.
She is looking out for him.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
My friends look out for me and I do the same for them.
That's what FRIENDS do!!!

She has broken ribs and collapsed lung?
Did her Ex beat her up?
If so and if she is pregnant then it's very probably the Ex's baby.
And if it is your BF and it's only 2 weeks then a test wouldn't even show positive yet.
She's either making it up OR trying to trap him into to being a dad to a baby that is NOT his!

No apparently she has had a collapsed lung for 10 years she has been in hospital 3 times over the last 2 weeks with issues with her lung ( won’t let him go with her 🧐) and I don’t mean appointments I mean rushed to a&e
And she apparently fell down the stairs but the other 3 people in the house didn’t hear her so got a taxi to hospital to be told she had 3 broken ribs and a broken collar bone that was 2 weeks ago ribs are still broken but the collar bone is completely healed

Why on earth would you lie by pretending to be happy about this fake pregnancy ?

Dear god - your poor BF.
He needs to wake the fuck up and smell the coffee here.
Imagine a life like this?
With all this drama?
Poor bloke.
I do think counselling would help him. He must have very low self-esteem to think this is love or anything like normal.
I know this is always banded around on here, but could he be autistic?

It's defiantly not too early to find out - I found out at 8DPO on an early response test, but she seems crazy so I wouldn't be surprised if she is lying

Are they right angles?

the collar bone is completely healed In TWO weeks? Really?

I suspect as other PPs have said she's either not pregnant at all OR it's her ex's baby ... You can only be a shoulder to cry on OP.

I'm edith Potnoodledoo - she'd could have already been pregnant before she had sex with your best friend and for some reason is claiming he's the dad.

He's 36? Honestly, he sounds about 14. He's really happy that a woman he's been seeing for two weeks is apparently pregnant???

I'd steer well clear because it's all going to be drama from here on in. (I think the baby is her ex's too. If there is a baby.)

She had a collapsed lung for 10 yrs? Errr what?! And her collarbone healed in 2 weeks 😂 She sounds lime an absolute nightmare.

But tbf your friend doesn’t sound any better! I think all you can do is be there for him when it all collapses. Which it will. He’ll see how bonkers she is sooner or later, and then he’ll need you.

@NegroniOnIce don’t be a dick, op has already stated she has dyslexia.

If she's got three broken ribs and a broken collarbone, how on earth did she even mange sex in the first place. Surely it would be agony!

Sorry OP but your BF is a guillable idiot. Wtf is she on about and how the hell can he swallow her BS!!

I'm so confused about this.
Surely your friend must be telling a few porkies to you about when they started to see each other.

How is he in love with her after 2 weeks? At what point did she become his girlfriend? Are you sure they weren't sleeping together before this?

You say to him:

Mate, no sane person would be pleased about getting pregnant after 2 and half weeks of meeting someone. You don't know each other at all, it's a recipe for disaster.

From what you have told me the dates don't add up. She is either already pregnant and try to cuckold you, a liar and full of shit, or mentally deluded. Neither of which are great.

Collarbones don't heal in 2 weeks. That story also sounds like bullshit.

If he doesn't believe you, I would step back from the friendship. Some people like to surround themselves in drama. You've got your own life to lead without the bullshit this will bring to your door. Find some other normal friends.