This is what has happened and I would like so insight to what you all would think on this scenario... A woman from our area (Julie) , is very well known for getting involved in other people's business , she caused a lot of problems for people in our area, so she moved to the other side of the world to "escape the negativity" so she says. So anyways .. Julie decided to tell a group of women she knows that "my partner cheats on me all the time" , one of the women she said this too has history with me - ( She Hates my guts ) .. so this woman decided to use this info and tell me to probably get a kick out of hurting me. . So of course I was then thinking wtf ? Is he cheating ? So I asked Julie why she said this for or what evidence she has that he done this - She denied that she said it .. although I know she 100% said this as the other ladies confirmed it also. My partner has said that this is just not true at all and that he has never cheated on me in his life. A part of me believes him bit another part makes me think WHYYYYY would another girl say that sort of thing for nothing? Like I just need to know the reason behind everything and it's left my brain melted and made me so paranoid thinking people are laughing at me behind my back. So I keep accusing my partner and it's driving him absolutely insane now at this point I think. He went threw a calm stage and trying to ignore me but I think I'm going to far now, I know myself I am. I decided to contact these woman again only this week and Julie said " you have a kid , I don't need this drama in my life " blah blah ? But she is the one said it all? The other girl that hates me just blocked me. Bare in mind I only said "hi I'm hoping now that things have calmed down , you will be able to tell me where all this has came out of woman to woman as this is really affecting my relationship and my mental health" .. nope just BLOCK. I feel like I'm losing my mind though . . what do you think? Is it just a made up piece of gossip or do you think there may be some truth behind this? It makes me upset to think there are people would want to say these type of things and then not even explain why they have said it..feel so left in the dark.