Okay, so joined up just for advice on this! I’m 50 (just), married - happy in that my husband is great most of the time but sex stopped probably five years ago. We’ve never discussed why and we are still happy, enjoy each other’s company but just not fussed about the physical stuff.
The complicated bit....following some messages online I met up with a bloke I used to know vaguely through work. He’s not my type, really, he can be really annoying sometimes - childish - but other times is so sweet and makes me laugh. We have progressed to a physical relationship and despite not being my type that bit....well, it’s really great. So....the issue - well, not an issue as such but advice. He and I have talked about something we’d both like to try - a threesome with another woman - but I don’t know where to start trying to find someone. I want to do it because life’s too short and I’d sooner rather with someone who I know is just a fling....
Am I mad to even contemplate it?!