Urgent advice really needed!

[Hammers1987]

So, I met my Husband yesterday to discuss the children. He is currently living with the woman he cheated on me with and left me for.
To cut a long story short he told me the grass wasn't greener on the other side, that he was unhappy and wanted to come home.
Whilst we were walking back to his car the other woman turned up, got out the car and kicked off screaming and shouting all in front of her 7 year old son. My ex wouldn't let her attack me and asked her to stop speaking to me the way she was. Anyway, she shouted in front of my daughter that she was pregnant and having a scan on Tuesday.
I spoke with my Husband who said she had done three pregnancy tests and they were all negative and she thinks she is pregnant because of sore breasts and sickness. When I asked about the scan he said it is a pelvic ultrasound at the GP surgery. I asked if she had had blood tests and he said no. Apparently she has said the scan is an early pregnancy scan but I was under the impression a gp wouldn't request one and certainly with no confirmation of pregnancy? She had back surgery only two weeks ago and to be honest I am not sure I believe her as it all seems a bit strange. Can anyone shed some light in this? This news has floored me, I went from sorting things out with my husband to hearing that!

Walk away from the drama.

Why would you want to mix yourself up this shit. Your (ex) husband made his bed and he wants you to lie down in it.

Fuck that shit.

Frankly, who the fuck cares whether or not she is pregnant?f

I sincerely hope there is no part of you considering taking this waste of space back?

Oh god leave them to it. You've had a lucky escape. Do you really want to get back with someone whose looked you in the eye and repeatedly lied.

Urgent advice needed?

Come on, op. Get a grip.

An ultrasound would be unlikely to be done by a GP, if it ever is. I think she's lying.

You surely don't want to get back together with him?!

Wash your hands of both of them. The only thing you should be sorting out with your husband is the divorce.
You can do soooo much better.

Please don’t say you would consider going back to him, no matter how it turns out with this silly drama..... so depressing

If I knew him, I’d be giving the husband the same advice as I’d give anyone who has just split up with someone. Be yourself for a bit, concentrate on work, children, hobbies. Then if you want to date a few months later go for it.
He wants the easy life. He’s not interested in making long lasting changes like renting a pad. He messed up and now he’s dating a psycho hose beast whose scaring him with threats of pregnancy. So he decides he had a cushier life with you and wants to return. That way it’s easy. Same bed, say “but I’m returning for you and the kids” yada yada in order to get what he wants. He’s abused that privilege.
Sod that for a game of soldiers.
As for the scan, I would have expected a positive test before a scan. It’s more likely it’s for something else and she’s telling it as she’d like it to be. More likely it’s to do with the back problems or perhaps they fear uterine fibroids or other womanly problems?

She’s an arse, he’s an arse. Keep aware from arses they are full of shit....! I just hope he uses protection while he’s having sex with her or this could be a forerunner for a real pregnancy. And yes, he really will be stupid enough to hump her even though she’s cuckoo and he’s not in love with her.....Remember that when you feel like giving in and letting him return. And if she is pregnant having him at home and bringing back another woman’s baby on his custody days will be a killer.

Politely tell your husband that he can't come back because you've moved on and are really happy.

He can't be playing musical beds because his penis made a mistake and now wants to go back to you.

If she is pregnant then that's none of your concern, leave them to sort that out between themselves.

Do not give him the time of day other than seeing your child.

Walk away! Your husband has cheated on you, you deserve so much better... leave him to his karma

No no. He brought this crazy into your life, you were innocent in this.

Walk away. In fact run.

This is all his doing.

(But big hugs because I would be gutted to hear that news, true or not)

Urgent advice, you say?

Two swift "Off you fuck"s to the pair of them and let them wallow in their self made miserable hysterics.

Then pour yourself a nice glass of wine and congratulate yourself on the whole sorry mess he has made for himself not being your problem.

Can I just check what urgent advice you need? There problem . Tell him to keep her away from Dd if she can’t behave appropriately.

I agree, not your circus, leave them to it. They deserve each other and its all far too complicated.

My ex wants to come back every time he runs out of money. Your ex wants to come back because the OW is a bunny boiler not because he loves you. I can assure you of this.

Tbh I wouldn't be trusting that lying prick and I'd actually be questioning whether he was telling the truth over the supposed 3 negative pregnancy tests.

If anything i'd be thinking it's quite convenient he's now running back quickly

You don't need urgent advice at all...you just need to urgently fuck them off

Tell him to jog on.

Get rid. Wouldn't want the drama

He wants to come back and hide behind his wife. He wants to pit you against OW because he is shit scared to deal with the madness.

Is this the kind of guy you need in your life ?

Hello ?

What AnyFucker says ^

Thank you everyone. I was doing really well until last night, I was in a good and happy place. My head is all over the place and I am not sure what to think or believe. I miscarried my Husbands baby three weeks ago at six weeks pregnant, so hearing that done me in!

I am really sorry to hear that Hammers, it makes what he has done evem worse. But don't let him wheedle his way back in.

Karma might be slow, but as he is finding out, she is a bitch when she arrives.

Even more of a reason to kick this loser into the long grass where he belongs

He's a Jeremy Kyle case. Do you get this ? Is this the kind of person you envisaged living your life with ?

Tell him to fucking put something on the end of it and then to sow his bad seed elsewhere.

Oh dear. Kick him into the long grass OP. Sorry for your loss, you don’t need this drama adding to it.