I feel like my relationship is going nowhere

[Sunflowers2811]

I'm not sure why I'm posting. Just to get it out really because I don't know who I'd talk to about it irl. I feel like my relationship is going absolutely nowhere. Haven't been intimate in 3 months. I really want a baby and soon, it's not going in that direction. He is kind and loving and very good to me but I just feel like it's not going anywhere.

If that’s how you feel then you’re right

To ask the obvious question, have you had a proper talk about what you both want and where you see things going?

While break ups are tough, it’s better to make the decision sooner rather than later. Children are the biggest deal breaker so if he’s not there wanting what you want then don’t risk missing out of being a mum for him, no matter how loving he is.

Ask him. Sorry to be blunt but, it’s either that or bin him off

Chances are that it is already over if you're questioning it. End it, and move on.