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could you be with someone this rude?!

60 replies

Whatthehell189 · 10/10/2019 12:34

I’m currently separated from my daughters Dad, she is 1, had been with him 5 years before she was born. He is now wanting to try again however this weekend when visiting my mums he did not bother saying hello to my mum at all, not a word. My mum had an operation a few days before and usually will try and start a conversation with him but this weekend she said she couldn’t be bothered, he is coming into her home and so he should say hello. It isn’t the first time it’s happened, he’ll even not speak to my sisters. When I brought it up to him he said he thought he had said hello.. I get it is tough, DD and I don’t live with him and are an hours drive away but if you are seeing other people at least acknowledge them. I have a lot of issues with his parents but if I were to go into their home or even just to see them I’d still say hello even if I really didn’t want to be there.. just because it’s the polite thing to do and I’m an adult, I’ll put aside my feelings for that moment to get coexist.

So would you be with or get back together with someone like this?

OP posts:
fedup21 · 10/10/2019 12:34

No

TheQueef · 10/10/2019 12:35

No.

AryaStarkWolf · 10/10/2019 12:36

No

vampirethriller · 10/10/2019 12:36

No

Gorganzolabrie · 10/10/2019 12:37

Absolutely not.

Shoxfordian · 10/10/2019 12:39

No
No
No

Musti · 10/10/2019 12:39

No no no

PinkCrayon · 10/10/2019 12:40

No.

Dhalandchips · 10/10/2019 12:42

Another no from me!

yawnhedehihi · 10/10/2019 12:45

A big hell no from me.

AutumnCrow · 10/10/2019 12:46

No. First he was rude, and second he lied about it - it's called 'gaslighting'.

My ExH would frequently do this. He's a very tiresome man, I realised. I don't know what possessed me to be with him.

MyAuntyBadger · 10/10/2019 12:51

No

DarlingBuds19 · 10/10/2019 12:51

No.

Very strange (& shit) behaviour.

MyAuntyBadger · 10/10/2019 12:53

After having an operation I would expect someone in my home to at least ask me how I am. He ignored her. He's horrible.

IdblowJonSnow · 10/10/2019 12:53

Another no from me. Don't get back with him. If it was right you most likely would have stayed together in the first place. - I realise there are exceptions to this.

HollowTalk · 10/10/2019 12:53

Get back with him? I'd want to push him into the river at high tide.

mumu54 · 10/10/2019 12:54

And another 'NO'

minmooch · 10/10/2019 12:58

No way

Chunkers · 10/10/2019 12:59

Nope

ThreeLittleDots · 10/10/2019 13:00

No!

hellsbellsmelons · 10/10/2019 13:00

The questions is, why would you want to be with someone this rude?
He is an Ex for a reason.
It's never wise to go backwards.
Especially with someone this fucking rude!
Do you want this to be the 'norm' for your DD?
That men don't have to speak to women!

balonzz · 10/10/2019 13:01

no

AnneLovesGilbert · 10/10/2019 13:02

No. But is this new behaviour?

upups · 10/10/2019 13:04

No way

SevenStones · 10/10/2019 13:11

No!

It's not difficult to say hello FFS!