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could you be with someone this rude?!

60 replies

Whatthehell189 · 10/10/2019 12:34

I’m currently separated from my daughters Dad, she is 1, had been with him 5 years before she was born. He is now wanting to try again however this weekend when visiting my mums he did not bother saying hello to my mum at all, not a word. My mum had an operation a few days before and usually will try and start a conversation with him but this weekend she said she couldn’t be bothered, he is coming into her home and so he should say hello. It isn’t the first time it’s happened, he’ll even not speak to my sisters. When I brought it up to him he said he thought he had said hello.. I get it is tough, DD and I don’t live with him and are an hours drive away but if you are seeing other people at least acknowledge them. I have a lot of issues with his parents but if I were to go into their home or even just to see them I’d still say hello even if I really didn’t want to be there.. just because it’s the polite thing to do and I’m an adult, I’ll put aside my feelings for that moment to get coexist.

So would you be with or get back together with someone like this?

OP posts:
C0untDucku1a · 11/10/2019 08:49

Oh god this guy again. He is a shit op. Move on.

He thought he said hello? No he didnt.
Sounds like he wants you isolated from your family... the people who can see him for what he is.

KUGA · 11/10/2019 09:19

Another no from me.
Sounds like were all on the x-factor panel lol.

BackOnceAgainWithABurnerEmail · 11/10/2019 09:22

That’ll be a hard no. What. A. Dick.

KOKOtiltomorrow · 11/10/2019 09:36

YES........said no one ever

Interestedwoman · 11/10/2019 11:31

Nope, wanker.

'I'm out.' :) (I suppose that's Dragon's Den lol.)

Lozzerbmc · 11/10/2019 17:34

No better off without him i’d say

CharlotteCollinsneeLucas · 11/10/2019 18:30

Well of course not.

Being single is good.

CharlotteCollinsneeLucas · 11/10/2019 18:31

And don't have a go at him - he's not a child and in any case you're not his mother.

Just chalk it up as more evidence you did the right thing.

Actionhasmagic · 11/10/2019 18:53

Nope

GothMummy · 11/10/2019 19:01

Don't do it OP. I have lived for 22 years with a husband who does not say hello to my mum or my friends when they come round or when he has to visit my mum. I used to be scared to say anything but now I will say loudly "Say hello to Xxx, husband!" because I am sick of being embarrassed by his behaviour and want to call him out on it. So, no, don't put up with this behavior you don't want to live like that.

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