cheating?

[MyWitzEnd]

My DH goes supermarket shopping on a Sunday, and more than once he has come back with his shirt open at the bottom (to me, like he had tucked it in whilst seated). I think he is getting a bj of a prostitute in Asda car park or something. Writing this makes me feel pretty ridiculous, but I know what I saw. I can't follow him as he will see me. What's left? If I track his car, it will probably only show him at the supermarket anyway. What to do?

This is why I go to Waitrose (joke)

I'm struggling to understand why you need to undo any shirt buttons to get to it, surely just trousers down and there it is or maybe shirt pushed up slightly if need be.
I'm not convinced, surely there's a more rational explanation, like he can't button up a shirt properly.

Now I know why my DH goes for bread cakes at Asda, the dirty bastard,

Get Ocado to deliver love, problem solved.

I don't know where you live but I've never heard of an Asda being a popular place for prostitutes to go for business.

Where do you expect she sucks it? My Asda is bloody busy on a weekend so it wouldn't be in the car surely?

I think it sounds batshit and I'm the most cynical fucker going.

You can't have come up with that from him just tucking shirts in surely?

What exactly do you mean by you know what you saw??

OP, did you post under a different name on Saturday about your boyfriend being with another woman, because he sent you a picture of a bottle of non-alcoholic beer? That thread was just as weird as this.

Now, if you had said he was shopping at Tesco I could have believed it, because as they say "every little helps".

You’re barking up the wrong tree OP, when I get a lunch time blowy from my boyfriend it’s the back of my shirt I forget, not the front.

But in all seriousness, your partner needs to run for the hills and you need to get more help for your MH.

You say people on here are being cruel, but put yourself in our shoes and re-read your post.

There must be more to this story than just an untucked shirt and unless you can tell us why you've leapt to this unlikely conclusion then it's very difficult to take you seriously...

I have been cheated on in the last two relationships. I just have this massive hunch
This is exactly why I will remain single.
If you don't trust him OP then why are you with him?
Do you have DC together?
If so, then make him take them with him on his next shopping trip.
It's a very strange conclusion to jump to OP.
Surely you can see that?
If you want to check and you want proof then I suggest you location track his phone.
If you have the money then get a PI on the case.
You'll only need to employ him for a couple of Sundays so it shouldn't be too expensive.
But honestly..... No trust = No relationship.

Wow now I've read everything. Who's first thought is that? Is this a real thread, it can't be.

He's probably not going to the supermarket at all he's going to his other girlfriends house in a Sunday because she talks more sense....

Firstly.. you are being incredibly paranoid and nonsensical. There are so many reasons this almost certainly isn't happening.

BUT.

If it was, I promise you, he would make every effort to make sure his shirt was just as it was when he left. Trust me.

Which Asda was it...........

How can you be sure the shirts are buttoned up before he goes out? Perhaps he isn’t bothering to do up all the buttons to begin with if he’s going to be tucking it in. ( his shirt that is...)

I admit to being a suspicious bunny boiler when it comes to DH but I've NEVER jumped to that conclusion when DH has come back from the shops looking a bit frazzled

But we shop in marks and Spencer but thinking about it it could just not be any BJ he's getting it could be a marks and Spencer BJ 🤣

I had it out with him and told him my suspicions. After an initial feeble denial, he actually has been meeting a prostitute but not at the supermarket, and been having hand jobs. He said that to him it wasnt that different to having a great massage (errrr!) Anyway - i have told him we can try work through it. He is actually a great bloke and i dont want to split over this.

HE ISN'T A GREAT BLOKE!!

Anyway - i have told him we can try work through it

You are a mug.

Get yourself down the GUM clinic petal

He is not a great bloke, OP. Great blokes don't do things like this.

I can't believe you were actually right about him, I read the thread and thought you were just being mega paranoid about him

Are you for real?

Ok now I know this is fake based on the update.

This can’t be for real, surely?!

I had it out with him and told him my suspicions. After an initial feeble denial, he actually has been meeting a prostitute but not at the supermarket, and been having hand jobs. He said that to him it wasnt that different to having a great massage (errrr!) Anyway - i have told him we can try work through it. He is actually a great bloke and i dont want to split over this.

Yeah, sure.

I was thinking there must be more to this to jump to that conclusion. I think there’s background (besides his confession) that you haven’t shared. Together with his confession I think is safe to say you should LTB and I don’t say that often.

Does he meet her before or after shopping? If he's buying freezer stuff I hope, for your sake, he meets her before.