Have been with my DP for nearly 5 years and in the whole time we have been together, although i have enjoyed sex, I have never been that bothered about it.
DP would always be the initiate things as i would 9 times out 10 just get into bed and go to sleep. To be honest, DP has been very patient with me as i have always had (what i would consider) a very low sex drive, whereas he would be happy to give it a go every day of the week.
It has previously caused numerous rows between us, DP thinking i can't love him or fancy him as i would be more interested otherwise.
However, I am glad to say that since having our DD my sex drive has appeared with a vengance. Even to the degree of having a bit of hanky panky before he went football training last night and then me sitting up witing for him to get in for a repeat performance (only for him to just want to go to sleep !!!!! )
Just find it a bit odd that it has suddenly appeared out of no-where when previously showed no signs of wanting to come out and play - Anyone else had this?